A Modern Day Rib in Action - Week 2 (cont)

So, now that I understand why the Lord created woman from a man's rib. What am I supposed to do with that? What does that look like in my life? Hebrews 4:12 says "For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart". I feel convicted that I have not lived up to my calling as a critical part of my husband, his wife. I tend to treat us as two separate entities, some times at odds with each other, rather than one flesh joined in holy matrimony.

"If your husband did not speak to you inappropriately, but did hurt your feelings, consider if what he said was an actual sin or a personal offense. If it was the latter, prayerfully consider overlooking the offense rather than expecting your husband to always behave in a manner which is pleasing to you - as I'm sure this is a great burden none of us can bear...that's why we have Jesus!" - Sunny *Emphasis mine*

The above quote from Sunny in our Bible study left an impression with me. I am a perfectionist and if anyone, especially my husband, points out my sin or where I may be wrong, my pride is hurt and I can become extremely defensive and desperate to prove that I am right and not wrong. I need to pray to the Lord that I will begin to take constructive criticism better and use that information as a blessing to help me change and become more Christ-like.